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My ex has been threatening me. I broke up with him several months ago and I stopped all communication with him. I even changed my mobile number and stopped responding to his emails. I thought maybe he would get over me but he has found a new way of harassing me. He calls and emails my friends and says all the nasty things about me. Because of this action of his, my reputation is also getting hampered.
I spoke to his parents and they assured me that he won't commit a blunder again but I don't trust them anymore as they have given such assurances in the past as well. I think the only resort left is the police action but I am afraid of this and don't want to take this step. Please suggest.
I understand your trauma and I know how it feels when someone bothers us to this extent. My earnest suggestion to you is to take your parents into confidence and tell them the truth. Just tell them the situation as it is and let them decide.
When things are beyond your control, its important to seek elder's help. Let your parents deal with it in their manner. They should talk to him directly and speak to his parents as well. Also, they can approach the police and there is no harm in it.
People like him should be severely punished so that they dont attempt the same blackmailing again. Also, if he does not stop now, he may create the problem anytime in future as well. You are an educated, modern woman so you should very well stand up for your right and seek police/law's help whenever needed. Don't take him lightly.
Teach him a lesson so that he gets away from your life forever and does not try his filthy tricks again.