Today is woman's day and I am writing about a subject close to my heart - the subject of 'choosing' to get married. In the last few weeks, I have received numerous emails and messages like the one shown in the photo. What should a girl do if she doesn't want to get married? What if she wants to but not right now or not in the next couple of years? What if she is not yet … [Read more...]
How To Find The Right Life Partner: Your Complete Guide
A regular reader asks, Hi Surabhi, I have to knock your door once again since my friends and I are very much used to your blog. Each and every word is related to our lives. My question in plain, simple words is: How do I find the right life partner? My confusion in life regarding marriage still prevails. My parents will never approve the idea of marrying any … [Read more...]
Here Is Why An Attractive (and Well Settled) Man Marries An Average Looking Girl
Recently I got a message on Quora where a woman asked me this - As soon as I read this message, I thought to myself, ‘I have felt this way too!’ It is very common for women to judge themselves and feel inferior. We all do it. I am not good looking enough. I am not educated enough. I am not talented enough. I am not sexy enough. I am not this, that, xyz, abc … [Read more...]
Ask Womanatics: How to Find Quality Time With Husband
Question: How do I find quality time to spend with my husband who keeps very busy? "My husband spends lot of time at work. He is a workaholic. Even when he comes home, he sits at his laptop and starts working. We argue so much on his work. Whenever I ask him about this, we start fighting. I want to spend time with him but he does not. What should I do?" Answer: If … [Read more...]
How to Deal With Parents’ Pressure for Marriage and Pursue Your Dreams
I recently got three questions on 'how to deal with parents' pressure for getting married and how they should evade this pressure and instead follow their dreams.' I decided to do a blog post in an attempt to answer all the three questions in one go. I can very well relate to the email sent to me and the two other emails that I received. Not a surprise that all the three … [Read more...]