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How to Move On After a Hurtful Breakup

February 27, 2012 by Surabhi 6 Comments

“If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.”– Unknown Author

We all have been there. Through times that seemed endless and the hardest. Through seasons that had never been there before. And through emotions that were completely out of control.

These are the times of heart wrenching break ups. A heart break is not necessarily a break up of a relationship. It can be a failure in that final, last and the most critical exam. Or a betrayal from a friend. Or simply a financial loss.

Human heart has so many strings attached and so many are the possible causes of a heart strain.

But one has to move on. For the same heart that has got broken wont stop beating. It beats and keeps you alive. So you have to live.

We have a tendency to fall down in times of heart break. We love doing nothing; sitting idle and thinking or crying; resorting to drinking and smoking and trying to kill time. We do this because this is the EASIEST thing to do. Doing nothing is easy.

But this downfall, similar to a swing that comes down from a height feels exciting, relaxed and adventurous till we land on the ground. Once we are on the ground, we look up and that is when we feel the loss of the time, energy, resources, family and friends.

Here are ways to help you move on after you have had a devastating breakup.

  • Seek help – there is never any harm in reaching out to people and even getting emotionally dependent on them for a while. Seek help of your friends and family. Confide in them. This will not only help you in recognizing your true friends but will also help you to regain your lost strength.
  • Recognize your purpose – after a failed attempt, we mostly spend time in introspecting the causes and mourning over the loss while it is the perfect time to ask yourself a few good questions. Recognize your purpose.
  • Feel light emotionally – this particular relationship or activity was consuming a lot of your time. Feel free that it has finally happened. You are no more bound to it that was internally causing pains and deterioration. Feel light and move up.
  • Read and write – this one certainly helps. There are numerous blogs and magazines to give you a good reading exercise. Read a lot. Read about people who have had similar experiences and how they dealt with it. If you are not a reading person, write it down and delete it.
  • Take a break – take a break from all things familiar. Move to a different place or take up a job or meet new people if you think the familiarity sucks. Taking a break will bring freshness.
Finally, Womanatics is here for my readers and yes, I can be a patient listener and a trust worthy confidante. Like many of the wonderful readers  who have shared their stories with me, you can also talk to me and I am all ears.

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Filed Under: Love and Relationships, Motivation and Inspiration

Comments

  1. Live In Care Agency says

    October 17, 2012 at 10:46 am

    Those are really very good ways to get rid of from hurtful breakup. Usually I go to different places to twist my mind in to some other events so I can forget my feelings for some time.

    Reply
  2. Surabhi Surendra says

    October 17, 2012 at 1:56 pm

    Yeah.. I would also go for traveling as I enjoy visiting places but a new place helps in getting away from old memories.

    Reply
  3. Anonymous says

    September 16, 2013 at 9:06 pm

    It hurts but i guess there are always reasons for all the things that happen to people. Thanku for ur help. Nw i knw wat 2 do

    Reply
  4. Taking a Break in Relationship says

    April 11, 2014 at 5:06 am

    Ya its really painful i am going through it and its really hurt a lot. I am trying to get out of it hope this tips will help me out.

    Reply
  5. Surabhi Surendra says

    April 11, 2014 at 2:04 pm

    I know break up hurts and it hurts real bad! I hope you find the strength to move on. All the best.

    Reply
  6. Surabhi Surendra says

    April 11, 2014 at 2:24 pm

    I hope so too that you take some tips from it and hope you get over it very soon. 🙂

    Reply

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